Relationship tools for reconnection

Each of these tools are most useful when used in a calm period of time; these will be difficult to use in times of argument or strife. For any of these tools, I’d suggest sitting down together with coffee or wine in a location that is familiar for both of you. If these sorts of conversations are foreign or uncomfortable, start slow. Do just a few questions the first time; pick the easy ones. Work your way up to the deeper conversations.

The Skin Deep Card Deck

These cards contain questions to take turns asking one another to stimulate deeper conversations. They have many different categories of cards, including: couples edition, long-term couples edition, dating edition, and more!

Gottman Card Decks App

This is a free app for your phone that holds various questions, statements, and phrases to help you practice communicating with one another. There are questions about emotions, memories, spicy time, and more.

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work Book

This book is easy to digest, practical, and easy to read together. Read a chapter, and then discuss it together. It’s not too long, but it holds such amazing information!

A Few Instagram Accounts to Browse

Jordan Dann - https://www.instagram.com/jordandann/?hl=en

The Gottman Institute - https://www.instagram.com/gottmaninstitute/?hl=en

Nedra Glover Tewwab - https://www.instagram.com/nedratawwab/

Adam Grant - https://www.instagram.com/adamgrant/?hl=en

Esther Perel - https://www.instagram.com/estherperelofficial/

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